Cancer Free Girl's Daily Journey: April 2013

Friday, April 26, 2013

Always Be Thankful For The Small Things....................

Saturday, April 6, 2013

Some People Take Cancer Survivors For Granted

Hello! It's amazing how some people react to a person with Cancer or a survivor of Cancer. When I had Cancer, some people treated me like I had the plague! As if Cancer was contagious. They stayed their distance. Some would ask about me through 3rd party. Which was sad! Pick the phone up & call. Just say hello & I'm Praying for you & your family or can I do anything for you doing this time. A kind word would go a long way during that time. People should stop being so selfish. Cancer can hit anyone at any given time. Cancer does not discriminate! Remember that! Going through having Cancer is the ultimate life change. Your life will never be the same! I can't explain the surgeries, pain, hospital stays, blood work labs & having poison going in your body. It was an ordeal I never will forget! If you know someone battling this disease, be kind & be sweet. Send them thinking of you cards & call often. Ask them if they need a shoulder to cry on & most importantly, listen to them! Let them vent for a moment. People be in a fragile state & needs someone to have empathy for them. If a patient don't have a car & you do, see if they need a ride to Chemo, if you're available. God will Bless you. If you cook, take them a meal. Do something outside yourself. I would be in a room & hear people talking about Cancer & be in shock at some of the things I heard! "I'm glad it ain't me", "I'll never get Cancer", "I wonder how much time he got left", "She must have been a bad person to get Cancer", "Dang, that's messed up","They didn't eat right", "Oh well, where are we going to eat". Terrible, right? All people with Cancer are not bad people. Some people hear you're a survivor & be like, dang, why my "whoever" didn't make it! What's so special about you?! How about, congratulations? God is good! Praise the Lord! Some people asked me about my journey, but didn't care when I was going through it. I say to those people, God healed me & I'm Blessed & I would rather not go down that road right now. Be compassionate to the people battling & to the people who have survived. Some people think because you survived that you bounce back to normal. You're life will never be the same! It takes years to feel 100%! It's a physical & emotional battle coming back from Cancer. It's been almost 4 years for myself & I still have days where I'm really tired & emotional. I still deal with pain from Chemo. Chemo killed good cells as well as bad cells. Those good cells have to rejuvenate. It's like being an infant as far as the cells growing. I have days where I'm GREAT! I don't rush to do anything anymore. I've learned to take time & smell the roses. I've been Blessed beyond belief & I want to share my story to help someone. Please take heed to what I'm saying. Some people don't get it until it's them or someone close to them battling the disease. Don't let it get to that point before you're kind to a person with Cancer. We have to fight for a cure & encourage those going through this & encourage the survivors as well. Pray for continued good health for the survivors. If you don't know what to say, please don't say anything bad. Encouraging words are a Blessing coming from your mouth! That's how God wants us to be to one another in need. Just my words & thoughts. I hope this is enlightening to someone. Have a Blessed night! Love to all!!!
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Friday, April 5, 2013

Doing Something I Love

I've been talking about doing something for a long time & I finally decided to do it. I wanted to do something I was passionate about. I love fashion, shopping, hair, dressing up, dressing my daughter, doing fancy hairstyles on my daughter's hair, cooking, decorating, planning parties & crafting! I wanted to combine everything I love into one idea. So, I started another Blog. http://www.fashionandwhateverilike.blogspot.com. I Started it on Weds & my son helped with the technical stuff, but I did most of it on my own. I amazed myself. I love going on websites/Blogs looking at the latest fashion & hairstyles. I've been doing this for years. I know all the labels, etc. I knew my friends/family were getting tired of me talking about those things, so I decided to do a Blog & blog about it. My husband laughs when I take pictures of the food I cook or what I'm wearing. I'm just passionate about those things. I'm so excited that I finally did it. It may not mean much to anyone else, but it means the world to me! I thank God that he gave me the motivation to do it & I Prayed & asked God to Bless my Blogs. It's all positive! Nothing negative will go on my Blogs! I rebuke negative people & negative comments. Nothing will discourage me! I just wanted to share with you! I'm feeling GREAT!!! I'm so Blessed! On to my next chapter in my life! Have a Blessed Day!!! Love to all!!!
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